Adorable granny blows out her teeth as she tries to blow out her birthday candles

Imagine celebrating your 102 birthday. Amazing! Anyway, to the story! 102 year old great-grand mother, Louise Bonito, was trying to blow out her birthday candles when her teeth flew out instead.

The adorable grandma, who was surrounded by her children, grand and great grand children for the birthday celebration, laughed at what happened, and the sweet moment was captured on film and shared on instagram. It has been re-posted by many others and watched by thousands, making her an internet sensation. She explained to ABC News:

I was sitting down and my daughter brought in a cake with a 1-0-2 on it. She said, ‘OK mom, you have to blow out the candles. I took a deep, deep, breath and with all my might I blew out the candles and then my teeth came out. Well my grandchildren went crazy laughing, and laughing."

Malaysian-based dance duo Styl Slayer slay with Simi's "Tiff" dance video

Malaysian dance duo Styl Slayer made up of Nigerian Tunde StylSlayer and Malaysian Stephanie Goh slay in this trending dance remake video of Simi's "Tiff". The clip was shot in Malaysia, StylSlayer has choreographed routines for 2face, Lara George etc. Watch the dance video above 

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Popular Yoruba Nollywood actress, Bimbo Thomas has got herself a rich new boyfriend.

Bimbo Thomas

The beautiful actress, according to reports from Kemi Filani, is now in a relationship with a big boy. A reliable source close to the actress has revealed that her new man recently lavished a whooping N45million on her.

The actress was said to have spent N5million to stock the store while she spent the rest on logistics, store fixtures and rent. See photos from the opening ceremony below:
     
The actress sure got taste!
 

Juve Ousts Madrid To Reach Champions League Final

Serie A Champions, Juventus, has qualified for the European Champions League Final billed for the city of Berlin in Germany.

Juventus goalkeeper, Gianlugi Buffon pumps his fists into the air to celebrate their victory. Photo: AFP

The Italian’s team victory came at the expense of defending champions, Real Madrid, in today’s semi-final clash between the two European giants.
Madrid had taken the lead with Cristiano Ronaldo delivering a superb penalty kick that saw one of the world’s best goalkeepers Gianlugi Buffon dive to his right, as Ronaldo side-foots the ball high down the middle with his right foot in the 23rd minute of the game.
As the match went on, Real Madrid began losing control of the game, and it became apparent when Andrea Pirlo whipped a free-kick into the six-yard box. Under pressure, Madrid Gol-keeper, Iker Casillas does well to punch the ball off Juve defender, Chiellini’s head.
But the ball found its way back to the danger area and  Pogba who was onside on the left heads the ball to an unmarked Morata. The madrid-trained striker chests the ball down and then hits a strong left-footer through Madrid defender, Varane’s legs and past Casillas from 12 yards!
As a sign of respect for his old club, the striker didn’t celebrate the goal like he did in the first leg of the match.

Juventus will now face Spanish giants, Barcelona, in the final of the champions league.

WARNING: 10 Types Of Women You Should Never Marry

While we can all agree that nobody is perfect, there are actually a few things that would adversely affect a relationship if a man chooses to partner with a woman with some not-so-great attributes.

naijcom presents you with the 10 kinds of woman a man should think twice about making a wife.
1. The Bitter Woman: You know that woman that always seems to be angry at the menfolk all the time? Perhaps she has had her heart broken one too many times, but this woman is always bashing on men and talking about how they are no-good or useless. A man might not want to settle down with someone so bitter as it is guaranteed that when the opportunity arises, she would hurl hurtful insults and intense, hateful words his way due to all her unresolved anger.
2. The Selfish Woman: If you want a happy home and a partner that wants your happiness as well as hers, then you should steer clear of the selfish woman. A woman who is determined to make sure she always comes first would not be able to build a cheerful and loving home with you.

3. The Materialistic Woman: A woman obsessed with material things would certainly not make the best wife. If all she cares about are material possession over family, faith and spiritual fulfillment, then she will not make the best partner.
4. The Flirty Woman: Are you attracted to that woman that always seems to flirt with one person or another? She flirts like a butterfly from one man to another and makes all men feel like she is interested in them. Well, beware, because a habit like that might be hard to break after marriage and you would not want to start hearing that your wife has had flirty conversations with all the men in the neighbourhood.
5. The Party Freak: She is invited to every party and attends them all. She is always dressed in the most flashy clothes and is the ultimate party girl. She lives for the next big gathering and cannot say no to an invitation. Such woman might not be the type to settle down in a marriage.

6. The Spoilt-Brat: A woman who grew up having everything handed to her and has never had the experience of actually working for something is unlikely to make the best wife. No matter how much you might be willing to provide her with the kind of lifestyle she grew up with, remember, marriage comes with kids and kids require sacrifice. If she has never had to work or make sacrifices for anything in her life, it is unlikely that she would start now.
7. The Attention Seeker: While some women naturally like attention, when it becomes an obsession, then it is not a good idea. A good husband makes sure he has time for his wife, but this cannot happen 100percent of the time so a good wife should understand that.
8. The Gossip: Does she always seem to never mind her own business? Is she always focused on what someone else is doing or how someone else is living their life? Then you do not need this kind of woman as a wife. A man needs someone that would build a home with him and this requires some focus on her own plans and her own life. If she is too busy minding someone else’s business, then you are fighting a losing battle.

9. The Commitment-Phobe: A woman who finds it difficult to commit to anything (school, jobs, family, friendship, etc) would also not be able to commit to a marriage. If she seems to lose interest in everything quickly and is always looking for the next thing to jump into, then you would have a hard time keeping her focused in her marriage.
10. The Disrespectful Woman: If she seems to always be disrespectful and rude (even if it is to people she considers beneath her standards) then you need to think twice about marrying her. Respect for a fellow human being is a very important attribute in who we choose to spend the rest of our lives with so it is definitely not something that should be taken lightly.

Nigerian Students Abroad Suffer As Governor Amaechi "Stopped Caring"

Have the recent political events that affected Rivers state influenced the incumbent Governor Chibuike Amaechi’s determination to help and support Nigerian students abroad? Naij.com editorial team has been contacted by students from Rivers state who were sent to study abroad but are not receiving their stipends and struggling to get by.

Preshi Amaewhule (photo courtesy Facebook)

Preshi Amaewhule, who alerted us, is a native of Rivers state. He is currently studying Chemical Engineering at the University of Debrecen.
“I am crying, desperate and ragged,” he writes in his Facebook message to naij. “I am a beneficiary of the Rivers state governorship overseas scholarship which is been handled by an agency called RSSDA (Rivers state sustainable development agency).
“The state government sent me to Hungary, just as so many of us were sent to study all over the world in various universities. I am studying at the University of Debrecen.
“To cut this long story short, we have not been paid our stipends for the past seven months, and still counting. All our attempts to get the governor to our aid have proven to be abortive. In fact, with the political crisis in my state, I don’t see us getting paid soon because our governor, His Excellency Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi, does not look interested in our welfare anymore.
“All I am asking is for you to share this so that we may be able to continue with our studies here and not get deported. I am just one of many students suffering and languishing, with no hope for food, clothing or accommodation fees, plus we have to pay bills tomorrow. Help me and other students pass the information around.”
Below is the appeal the group has sent to Rivers state authorities in an attempt to draw attention to the issue — the attempt that is yet to yield results, according to Mr Amaewhule.

Letter of appeal y Nigerian students abroad to Rivers state authorities, page one

Letter of appeal y Nigerian students abroad to Rivers state authorities, page two

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Barca dey go Final

Barcelona don grab dia place for de Champions League final for Tuesday, afta dem don beat Bayern Munich 5-3 for aggregate for dia semifinal no matta dia 3-2 loss for Tuesday nite to de Germans for de Allianz Arena. Pep Guardiola's Bayern side bin dey face sontin wey dey like mountain dem no fit climb afta dem don suffa 3-kondo defeat for lass week fess leg for Camp Nou, but dem kon get early hope for de return leg wen Medhi Benatia wey no body dey mark carry head wire goal for de seventh minite.
But as things kon be, de final result for de match kon show face wen Luis Suarez don set up Neymar two times to wire goal for de visitors bifor dem don play haf hour.
Bayern bin show plenty swagger for de secon-haf and goals wey come from Robert Lewandowski and Thomas Mueller allow dem to win de game for de nite, but Barcelona kon enta for de final wey go shele for Berlin for June 6.
Luis Enrique's side go face either strong face rivals Real Madrid or Juventus for de final as de Italians go defend dia 2-1 fess-leg lead for de return leg for Santiago Bernabeu for Wednesday.                

Personal row casts shadow over La Liga

A long-simmering squabble between Spain's most powerful football chiefs could bring the Lionel Messi and Cristiano Ronaldo show to a halt this weekend.

The feud between Angel Maria Villar, head of the Spanish football federation, the RFEF, and Javier Tebas, head of the professional league, is the real cause of a threatened strike by players from Saturday, observers say.
The strike call is to be discussed in court on Wednesday and a judge could order the action suspended while a solution is sought.
"This has never happened before. There have been a few day-long strikes but never an open-ended one," said Alberto Palomar, a sports law expert at Carlos III University.
Real Madrid and Barcelona players have joined the protests demanding a bigger share of broadcast revenue be channeled to smaller clubs.
The league has taken the AFE players' union to court in a bid to save the season finale.
If they fail, the clash between Atletico Madrid and Barcelona on Sunday which could seal the championship for Barca, would be a victim.
It could also disrupt the last league matches on May 23 and the Copa del Rey final on May 30 between Barcelona and Athletic Bilbao.
BAD BLOOD
The RFEF launched the stoppage threat last week. It controls the lower leagues and amateur football, as well as the referees for top-league games.
The AFE players' union jumped on board, with star players such as Real goalkeeper Iker Casillas and Barca midfielder Xavi Hernandez speaking in support.
They complained that a new law on redistributing broadcasting rights did not channel enough cash to lower and amateur leagues.
The fact that Tebas and Villar are not talking to each other makes a deal unlikely.
"The basic positions are not so entrenched. What is entrenched is the personal confrontation," said Palomar.
Tebas complained in a recent open letter that Villar had called him an "arsehole".
Villar, a vice-president of world football's governing body Fifa, has led the Spanish federation for 27 years.
"What's behind all this? Dreadful personal relations that could not be worse, as well as a very complex regulatory system," said Palomar.
The division of powers between the league and the federation has always been problematic and the increasing money in football has heightened their conflict, he said.
A law approved by the government last month obliges broadcasters to make a collective bid to the league for the right to screen La Liga matches.
Previously they negotiated individually with clubs – a system that disproportionately benefitted the likes of Real and Barca as the most powerful.
The league hopes the new negotiating deal could boost broadcasting revenues to one billion euros a season.
But they dispute who should control the money.
The federation complains it is being reduced to a messenger for redistributing payments to players while the league gets money to cover costs.
The players' union complains of not being consulted over the reforms and has demanded a bigger share of revenues for smaller clubs.
Top players such as Casillas and his Real teammate Sergio Ramos, who also backed the strike, earn millions of euros a year.
Real Madrid's annual wage bill is said to be more than €250 million a year. While that of bottom side Cordoba is less than a tenth of that sum.
"It seems that what the players want is a bigger share of the league's new revenues," said Javier Hervas, an expert at the ISDE law school.
If the court does not suspend the strike, the government may have to act to avert a stoppage that would infuriate football-mad Spaniards in an election year.
"The government will have a tough job enduring a two-week strike," Palomar said. "It will have to do something, or people will be on its case."

Benzema, Pogba start for Real, Juventus

Karim Benzema made his return to the Real Madrid starting line-up after missing the last seven games with a knee injury for his side's Champions League semifinal, second leg at home to Juventus on Wednesday.

The European champions need to turn around a 2-1 first leg deficit against the Italian champions, who are also boosted as Benzema's French international teammate Paul Pogba is fit to start.
Pogba made his return from a near two-month layoff and scored Juventus' goal in a 1-1 draw at home to Cagliari on Saturday.
Another French international Raphael Varane is preferred to Pepe alongside Sergio Ramos in the centre of the Madrid defence.
Gareth Bale is retained alongside Benzema and World Player of the Year Cristiano Ronaldo in attack despite his poor form of late.
Juventus boss Massimiliano Allegri resists the temptation to switch to a five at the back as Andrea Barzagli is once again left out.
Indeed the only change from last week's first leg sees Pogba replace Stefano Sturaro in midfield.
Alvaro Morata, who scored the opener last week, starts on his return to the Bernabeu having come through the Real youth system before moving to Italy last summer.
Starting line-ups:
Real Madrid (4-3-3)
Iker Casillas (capt); Dani Carvajal, Raphael Varane, Sergio Ramos, Marcelo; Toni Kroos, Isco, James Rodriguez; Gareth Bale, Karim Benzema, Cristiano Ronaldo
Coach: Carlo Ancelotti (ITA)
Juventus (4-4-2)
Gianluigi Buffon (capt); Stephan Lichtsteiner, Leonardo Bonucci, Giorgio Chiellini, Patrice Evra; Claudio Marchisio, Andrea Pirlo, Paul Pogba, Arturo Vidal; Carlos Tevez, Alvaro Morata
Coach: Massimiliano Allegri (ITA)

Ancelotti handed two-game touchline ban

Real Madrid boss Carlo Ancelotti is banned from sitting on the bench for the rest of the La Liga season after receiving a two-game touchline suspension by the Spanish Football Federation on Wednesday.

The Italian was reported by referee Carlos Clos Gomez for sarcastically applauding the officials at the end of Madrid's 2-2 draw with Valencia on Saturday which all but ended their title hopes.
Los Blancos trail Barcelona by four points with just two games away to Espanyol and home to Getafe left to play.

Spain court to rule on league strike

A Spanish court said it would rule on Thursday whether footballers can legally push ahead with a strike which threatens to shut down the country's top league this weekend.
The National Court in Madrid made the announcement Wednesday after hearing arguments by lawyers for the AFE players' union and the league, which alleges the threatened strike is illegal.
The AFE has joined the RFEF federation, which controls referees, in threatening a stoppage to demand a bigger share of television broadcast revenues for smaller clubs.
Top players from Real Madrid and Barcelona have joined the protests demanding a bigger share of broadcast revenue be channelled to smaller clubs.
If the stoppage goes ahead it will halt the clash between Atletico Madrid and Barcelona on Sunday which could seal the championship for Barca.
It could also disrupt the last league matches on May 23 and the Copa del Rey final on May 30 between Barcelona and Athletic Bilbao.
In Wednesday's open hearing, lawyers for the two sides argued over whether the players had the right to go on strike against a new law that redistributes broadcast revenues from the lucrative Liga.
The head of the AFE Luis Rubiales said after Wednesday's hearing that he was confident the court would not block the strike.
"I am convinced this strike is legal," he told reporters outside the court.
"Our lawyer dismantled one by one all the points raised by the other party."
The chairman of the league, Javier Tebas, retorted: "I have always said the strike is illegal. Now it is up to the court to decide."
Rubiales said the union was "reaching out to meet with anyone we need to in order to resolve a serious problem".

Rihanna reportedly confronts girl after the girl called her a h**

According to MTO, Rihanna tried to confront a girl after the girl called her an ashewo, as she was walking into a New York City club last night. Rihanna reportedly ran past her security and tried to confront the girl but her security held her back, so instead she shouted obscenities at the girl. 

50 year-old woman delivers twins after 14 years of childlessness

Mrs Roseline Akinsola, 50, on Monday delivered a set of twins after 14 years of childlessness. The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that Akinsola, who works at the Ekiti State Christian Pilgrims Board, was full of praises to God for answering her prayers.

The mother of two girls, who weighed 4.2kg and 2.3kg, advised other couples in need of children not to lose hope. In an interview with NAN, she expressed gratitude to God for giving her the children after several years.

"I thank God for the new name he has given to me; before, I was being called Iya Iyanu’’ without a child, but today, my name has changed to “Mummy Twins.’’ Many of my colleagues, friends and neighbours mocked and sidelined me, but because I stood firm on the words of God, He answered my prayers. I thank my husband, who inspite of the troubles and problems from family members, friends, colleagues and neighbours still believe in me and God.
He stood by me like a father in all ways and also believed in God all through the crisis. I also thank my siblings who stood by me in prayers for years. Let me thank God for all those who stood by me in prayers and encouraged me not to desist from serving God. These children are indeed signs that God never forgets his own people who diligently seek him and believe in his words, ” she said.

The father of the twins, Babatunde,49, also expressed gratitude to God for the children.

"We fast, pray and cry unto God for the fruits of the womb for years, but I am happy that today, God has finally fulfilled his promise to my family. I thank members of our church under the callings of Pastor and Mrs David Ajileye for their prayers and care for my family,’’ the happy father, who is also a civil servant, said.

Ajileye, who is the General Overseer of the Way of Life Bible Church, Ado-Ekiti, thanked God for his blessings in the lives of the couple.

“We have known the couple for over 15 years and they have been steadfast and faithful in serving God inspite of the challenges they were facing. For years, I and my wife have been praying to God to give the couple the fruit of the womb; I am so happy that the lord has answered their prayers. The church witnessed a similar miracle in 2013 when a couple, members of our church delivered a set of twins, a boy and a girl after 31 years of childlessness,’’ he said.

He advised the couple to teach and train the children in the ways of the lord. NAN reports that the mother and the twins were in good health as at press time.

Photos: Ben Murray-Bruce throws poolside graduation party for his son

Senator-elect and Silverbird Group Chairman Ben Murray-Bruce over the weekend threw a poolside party at his Beverly Hills home for his son, Jared, who graduated with a B.A. in Communication from Loyola Marymount University. See the photos after the cut...

Ben Murray-Bruce was also honored by the Nollywood Producers Guild of America with an Honorary Lifetime Membership of the Guild as a recognition of his support and contribution to the growth of the Nollywood film Industry and African Cinema as a whole.

'Allah will punish me if I ever abuse your love for me' - son of Bauchi Gov writes to his wife

Handsome Umar Yuguda, son of Bauchi state governor, Isa Yuguda this afternoon took to his instagram page to declare his unending love for his very beautiful wife, Meemo who he got married to in December 2014. He says Allah will punish him if abuses her love for him. Meemo later replied her husband with a loving message of her own on instagram. Read his below and hers after the cut...

"My wife, my lover, my best friend, my soul mate and my life partner. Any amount of words I might decide to search for in this world would not be able to describe the distinctive beauty n outstanding of your character n person. You are kind, honest, strong in everyway, loyal, smart, loving, selfless, considerate, caring, hardworking, patient, adorable, funny, down to earth, respectful, sharp, pure, faithful, understanding, charismatic, generous, humble, intelligent, religious, you are the epitome of beauty and undeniably sexy (that incomparable to any woman on this earth) since the first day I met u, I knew there was something specially different about u and to my pleasant surprise, I was pleasantly right (my instincts never fail me).

U showed me how loving someone n caring about someone unconditionally felt sooo good. Meeting you n especially marrying u is a blessing to my life n has also brought me a lot of blessings, mashaAllah. Allah has given me everything in u and more n he will surely punish me if I ever abuse it (inshaAllah I wouldn't). I am so lucky to have married u n to make u a life partner. The norm is that beauty does not come with character, but Allah has decided to make u different because your character is even much more beautiful than your physique. I look forward to spending an eternal life with u because I know it's filled with loads of happiness n blessings. If I was to resurrect in the next life, I will surely look for u again to get married to u again n again n if I don't find you, I will die searching because I wouldn't settle for anything less. I love you so much baby and I want the whole world to know that and I appreciate you for all the little things you do for me and also the big things @meemaloso I will also like to say a big thank you to all the people that have been putting us in prayer all these while and also the people that have wished us well, May Allah continue to bless you abundantly and may He give you all eternal happiness and success in everything u do. N for those that have wished us bad or wish us evil n have tried to bring us down, may Allah purify ur hearts n lead u to the right path. God bless".

The wife's reply to him below...

"OMG!!! I'm speechless babe. This is beautiful! You're beautiful! You make my life more beautiful. I don't know where and what I will be without you! Thank you baby for everything I can't ask for a better partner/soul mate ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Did Tonto Dikeh's ex Malivelihood just throw shade at her?

I might be over reaching here but I couldn't help but notice what happened this afternoon and you know me, I will put one and two together and arrive at 10. Lol. So here's what I observed. Y'all remember a few weeks ago when Tonto Dikeh and luxury shopper Pearl Chuks came for each other on social media over some bags the shopper bought for Tonto Dikeh that she refused to pay for?

Ok, so this today, Tonto's ex-boyfriend, luxury designer Malivelihood, took to his instagram page to show off a $15,000 snake skin Givenchy bag he bought for his girlfriend, Deola Smart, saying he hopes she likes it (pictured right). So, how is it related?

Well, like I said, I may be over reaching - but Tonto's fight with the luxury shopper was over replica Givenchy bags, remember? (now getting where I am going? lol). Malivelihood bought same designer brand, Givenchy, made sure to let his followers know it's the real one and told them the price. That seems like a subtle sub to me...lol
Did Tonto Dikeh's ex Malivelihood just throw shade at her?



I might be over reaching here but I couldn't help but notice what happened this afternoon and you know me, I will put one and two together and arrive at 10. Lol. So here's what I observed. Y'all remember a few weeks ago when Tonto Dikeh and luxury shopper Pearl Chuks came for each other on social media over some bags the shopper bought for Tonto Dikeh that she refused to pay for?

Ok, so this today, Tonto's ex-boyfriend, luxury designer Malivelihood, took to his instagram page to show off a $15,000 snake skin Givenchy bag he bought for his girlfriend, Deola Smart, saying he hopes she likes it (pictured right). So, how is it related?

Well, like I said, I may be over reaching - but Tonto's fight with the luxury shopper was over replica Givenchy bags, remember? (now getting where I am going? lol). Malivelihood bought same designer brand, Givenchy, made sure to let his followers know it's the real one and told them the price. That seems like a subtle sub to me...lol

12 Obvious Signs You Are A Passive-Aggressive Person

What is the meaning of passive-aggressive, who is a passive aggressive person and how do you know you are a passive aggressive?

Relationship Help doctor, Rhoberta Shaler writes this eye-opening article on YourTango to help you know who you really are.

Here's what she wrote: How do you know if you are passive-aggressive? Aside from the obvious wake of people who won't get close to you, there are certain things to think about to determine if your behavior is truly passive-aggressive or not.

Good news, people are not passive-aggressive by nature. It's their communication and conflict management patterns that are, and these are learned. Luckily, those patterns can change with some insights, skills and relationship advice. So, if this post helps you see your passive-aggressive behaviors, you will understand why others find it difficult to be around on you, trust you, and respect you as you would like to be trusted and respected. You confuse them. People move away from folks who purposefully confuse them — if they are smart.

In order to make passive-aggressive traits abundantly clear to you, I'm offering you a very straightforward list. You may find it harsh. I hope you find it home-hitting and immediately revealing. If these traits describe you as you usually are, I invite you to sit up and take notice. You likely do not even realize you are doing these things. Once you read them and ponder your own behavior, you may finally understand why you are having difficulties having the relationships you most want, at home and at work.

More good news, the more willing to work on yourself you are, the greater your chances of having the life with others that you crave. When you realize how you are pushing them away by your crazy-making behaviors, you can change things within yourself. When you a trustworthy within yourself, you will be perceived as trustworthy by others.

Although men and women express their passive-aggressive behaviors somewhat differently, generally, you are behaving in passive-aggressive ways if you are regularly:

1. Unwilling to speak your truth openly, kindly and honestly when asked for your opinion or when asked to do something for someone. How this shows up in communication is being "assertively unassertive." You say "Yes" (assertive) when you really mean "No way" (unassertive). Then, you let your behavior say "No way" for you. People become confused and mistrusting of you.
2. Appearing sweet, compliant and agreeable, but are really resentful, angry, petty and envious underneath. You are living with pairs of opposites within, and that is making those around you crazy. 
3. Afraid of being alone and equally afraid of being dependent. This is the case of "I hate you. Don't leave me." You fear direct communication because they fear rejection. You then often push away the people you care about because you don't want to seem in need of support. All the while, you are afraid of being alone and want to control those around you so they won't leave you. Very confusing!
4. Complaining that others treat you unfairly frequently. Rather than taking responsibility for stepping up and speaking your truth, you set yourself up as the (innocent) victim. You say others are hard on you, unfair, unreasonable and excessively demanding.
5. Procrastinating frequently, especially on things you do for others. One way of controlling others is to make them wait. You have lots of excuses why you haven't been able to get things done. You even blame others for why that is so. It's amazingly unreasonable, but you do it even though it destroys relationship, damages careers, loses friendships and jobs. And, you tell others how justified you are in being angry because, once again, others treated you unfairly.
6. Unwilling to give a straight answer. Another way of controlling others is to send mixed messages, ones that leave the other person completely unclear about your thoughts, plans or intentions. Then, you make them feel wrong when you tell them that what they took from your communication was not what you meant. Silly them!
7. Sulking, withdrawing and pouting. You complain that others are unreasonable and lacking in empathy when they expect you to live up to your promises, obligations, or duties. Passive-aggressive women favor the silent treatment as an expression of their contempt. Passive-aggressive men prefer the deep sigh and shake of the head, while walking away.  Both expressions say “You poor confused person. You’re not worth talking to.” when the real reason for their behavior is that they have not, cannot, or will not take responsibility for their own behavior.
8. Frequently feeling inadequate but covering it up with superiority, disdain or hostile passivity. Whether you set yourself up to be a self-sabotaging failure — "Why do you have such unrealistic expectations of me?" or a tyrant or goddess incapable of anything less than perfection, "To whom do you think you are speaking, peon?" you are shaking in your boots from fear of competition and being found out as less than perfect. (P.S. You likely picked this one up in childhood!)
9. Often late and/or forgetful. One way of driving people away is to be thoughtless, inconsiderate and infuriating. And, then, to put the cherry on top, you suggest that it's unrealistic to expect you to arrive on time, or, in your words, "think of everything." Being chronically late is disrespectful of others. Supposedly forgetting to do what you have agreed to do is simply demonstrating your lack of trustworthiness. Who wants to be around that for long?
10. Dragging your feet to frustrate others. Again, a control move somewhat like procrastinating, but the difference is you begin and appear as though you are doing what you said you would do. But, you always have an excuse why you cannot continue or complete the task. You won't even say when it will be —or even might be — done.
11. Making up stories, excuses and lies. You are the master of avoidance of the straight answer. You'll go to great lengths to tell a story, withhold information, or even withhold love and affirmation in your primary relationships. It seems that if you let folks think you like them too much, that would be giving them power. You'd rather be in control by creating a story that seems plausible, gets them off your back, and makes reality look better from your viewpoint.
12. Constantly protecting yourself so no one will know how afraid you are of being inadequate, imperfect, left, dependent or simply human.

How To Reconcile With Your Friend After A Fight

Having true friends is one of life's greatest gifts but it doesn't mean there won't be fights between you all. Instead of letting an argument cause you to drift apart from your best friend, there are certain ways to reconcile and make sure you stay as close as ever.

Jah'Kayla Sharpe of All Women Stalk lists 8 things you can do to make up with your bestfriend after an argument.

1. Look at the situation from your friend's perspective: After a few days, contact your friend and ask to discuss things. There is a chance that your friend may not be ready to talk, and if that is the case, here are a few things you can say:"I want to make sure I understand where you are coming from.""Your friendship is important to me.""I want to hear you out."
2. Explain your feelings in "I" and "We" terms: The best way to confront a friend about what they’ve done is to tell them how it affected you. Practice explaining the entire situation using only the words like “I” and “we,” never “you.” never tell your friend what they did to you. This will put them on the defensive and make them much less likely to listen to whatever it is you have to say (especially if you’ve misunderstood the situation). • Incorrect: “You really hurt my feelings. You attacked me, didn’t let me defend myself, and didn’t listen when I tried to bring it up again later. I don’t even think you take this friendship seriously anymore.”• Correct: “My feelings were really hurt by our fight. I felt like I was being attacked and didn’t have a chance to defend myself, even when I tried to explain things later. Our friendship means a lot to me and I really want us to work this out
3. Give your friend some space: If you’ve done everything you can and your friend is still mad, they might just need time to cool down, think things over, and recover. Constantly calling, texting, emailing, and pestering them is not going to put them in a forgiving mood. And besides, it’s hard to miss somebody who’s always around.
4. Apologise: If you have done something wrong, for example, said something mean to them, give a heartfelt apology. Don't just say "I'm sorry". Say, "I'm really sorry for calling you names. I didn't mean anything I said. I just wanted to be funny, but in reality, I was being an idiot. I promise I won't do it to you again".
5. Talk it out/Do talk to them: Take about what you guys been fighting about. For example say what you have to say like "I didn't mean to harm you or hurt you I was just mad that day and I let it out all on you" like that so they would understand
6. Don't push it: Don't try and push it, just talk it out with them. tell them that they are important to you and you guys been through a lot with each other. Just don't push it that hard, it would probably push them away from you or they will think you're just there to be her friend and do the same again
7. Ask him/her to hang out over the weekend: Try hanging over with him/her over the weekend. Like go to the mall or the movies with each other. If him/her are busy try next weekend and talk about what happened
8. Aftermath: After you  guys made you, yes I will be kind of weird but it was worth It. You got your best friend!! Hope y'all be there till the end.